Does the message come from me or from a bot?

From you. We link your WhatsApp as a companion device and Telegram as a user client. Recipients see your name and the same chat they already have with you. We do not send as a business number or a Telegram bot.

Can WhatsApp or Telegram drop the connection?

Yes. WhatsApp can drop a linked device. Telegram can end a session. The connect screen and the terms say this plainly. If a session dies, we email you and hold the unsent wish.

What do the three prices actually buy?

Access to connect accounts and send. $24 for one year, $60 for five years, $96 for lifetime. You can sign in, keep a calendar, and add contacts without paying. Sending a birthday message requires a live plan.

62 birthdays. Zero forgotten.

Be the one who always remembers.

Every birthday on one wall. Every wish written early, in your voice. Sent from your own WhatsApp or Telegram, on the day.

Every birthday you care about, on one wall. Every wish written in your voice, ahead of time. Sent from your own WhatsApp or Telegram, on the day, at their hour.

Build your wall, free How sending works

Email code sign-in · calendar free forever · sending from $24, onceEmail code sign-in · calendar free forever · sending from €24, once

Sent this morning, 08:00

“Happy birthday, Mom. Flowers arrive at noon. Sunday lunch is on me.”

Sent this morning, 08:00

“Happy birthday, Mom. Flowers arrive at noon. Sunday lunch is on me.”

Sent from your account, never a bot
Pay once, $24, $60 or $96, no subscriptionPay once, €24, €60 or €96, no subscription
Email if anything can't send, you're never guessing

Sent from your account, never a botPay once. $24, $60 or $96, no subscriptionPay once. €24, €60 or €96, no subscriptionAn email if anything cannot send

See it once

Fifteen seconds, start to finish.

One late text. Then every wish written early in the app, and on each birthday they fly out on their own. Everyone lights up. Sound off is fine.

A birthday table laid out with candles and cake

How it works

Ten minutes now. Every birthday after, handled.

Sign in with a code
Type your email, get six digits. No password to invent or forget.Type your email, get six digits. No password to invent or forget.
Link your chat
Scan a QR for WhatsApp or enter a code for Telegram, same as linking a laptop.Scan a QR for WhatsApp or enter a code for Telegram, same as linking a laptop.
Add the people
Import contacts or type them in. One date each, kept for every year after.Import contacts or type them in. Each person gets one date, kept for every year after.
Write when you're warm
Tonight, on the train, whenever the words come. The date takes it from there.Tonight, on the train, whenever the words come. The date takes it from there.

The postcard moment

Written three weeks early.Felt right on time.

You, three weeks early

“Happy birthday, Dad. 70 sounds serious, you don't. Call you at lunch.”

Saved 2 Sep · sends 23 Sep, 08:00

DadTue 08:00

Happy birthday, Dad. 70 sounds serious, you don't. Call you at lunch.

08:00 ✓✓

Ha! You remembered before your mother did 😄

The quiet superpower

Stay warm with people you never text.

Old roommates. Cousins abroad. Set their wish once and it arrives every year, in your voice, from your own chat.

Old roommates. Cousins abroad. The mentor from your first job. You think of them fondly and never quite write. Set their wish once and it arrives every year, in your voice, from your own chat. The thread stays warm without you carrying it.

One evening of setup covers years of showing up.

Someone reading a birthday message on their phone in the morning

Kai, cousin in Toronto
Last texted 14 months ago
Every yearSends every year
Elin, old roommate
Last texted around New Year
Every yearSends every year
Jonas, your first boss
Last texted two jobs ago
Every yearSends every year
They never see the setup. They just know you remembered.

The honest part

A reminder app still leaves the hard part to you.

At 7am it buzzes: “It's Maya's birthday.” Now you stop, find the chat, and try to be warm in a hurry. We flip the order, be warm when you actually have a minute, and let the date do the sending.

Writing a birthday wish late in the evening

It's really you they hear from
Companion-device link, like WhatsApp Web. Your name, your chat history, your read receipts.
We tell you when it can't send
Sessions drop sometimes, WhatsApp and Telegram allow it. You get an email the same morning, with the unsent words held safe.
No subscription to babysit
One payment buys a window of sending. When it ends, your calendar and words stay, only the sending pauses.

Pricing

Pay once. Like a card, not a bill.

One year

$24€24 once

Sending is on for 1 year

A full lap of the calendar, to try it on real birthdays.

Five years

$60€60 once

Sending is on for 5 years

Works out to $12 a year. The one most people pick.Works out to €12 a year. The one most people pick.

Lifetime

$96€96 once

Sending is on forever

Set it up once and forget it for the rest of your life.

Sends from your own WhatsApp and Telegram
Yearly wishes that repeat on their own
One wish for a whole group, with {name}
An email the moment anything cannot send
A send log for every person

Every plan sends the same way. The price only sets how long.

One year
$24€24one payment
Sending is on for 1 year
A full lap of the calendar, to try it on real birthdays.
- Sends from your own WhatsApp and Telegram
- Yearly wishes that repeat on their own
- One wish for a whole group, with {name}
- An email the moment anything cannot send
- A send log for every person
Five years
$60€60one payment
Sending is on for 5 years
Works out to $12 a year. The one most people pick.Works out to €12 a year. The one most people pick.
- Sends from your own WhatsApp and Telegram
- Yearly wishes that repeat on their own
- One wish for a whole group, with {name}
- An email the moment anything cannot send
- A send log for every person
Lifetime
$96€96one payment
Sending is on forever
Set it up once and forget it for the rest of your life.
- Sends from your own WhatsApp and Telegram
- Yearly wishes that repeat on their own
- One wish for a whole group, with {name}
- An email the moment anything cannot send
- A send log for every person

The calendar never expires, every plan only sets how long sending stays on. Full pricing details→

Questions

What people ask before they connect an account.

Bday Message is a website that sends birthday messages from your own WhatsApp or Telegram. You keep the dates in one calendar, write the wish once, and it goes out on that person's birthday. Recipients see your name in the same chat they already have with you.

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Be the one who always remembers.

Fifteen seconds, start to finish.

Ten minutes now. Every birthday after, handled.

Sign in with a code

Link your chat

Add the people

Write when you're warm

Written three weeks early.Felt right on time.

Stay warm with people you never text.

A reminder app still leaves the hard part to you.

It's really you they hear from

We tell you when it can't send

No subscription to babysit

Pay once. Like a card, not a bill.

One year

Five years

Lifetime

One year

Five years

Lifetime

What people ask before they connect an account.

What is Bday Message?

Does the message come from me or from a bot?

Can WhatsApp or Telegram drop the connection?

What do the three prices actually buy?

The next birthday is closer than you think.